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duran
03-04-2008, 07:50 PM
Published: February 29, 2008
GOSHEN, Ohio — The scream that Dustin Carter let loose in a gym here last weekend conveyed equal parts pain and elation. It was the sound of glory for a high school senior who wrestles unlike any of his opponents.


Michael E. Keating/The Cincinnati Enquirer
Carter, a high school senior, uses prosthetic legs when not wrestling. He is 41-2 this season and is competing in Ohio’s state tournament.
Carter, 18, is a 103-pounder whose legs end at his hips, whose right arm stops just after his elbow and whose left arm is even shorter. He had the rest taken from him at age 5 because of a blood infection that required extensive amputations.

His life is not easy, but he gets by just fine — particularly on the wrestling mat. His scream was his guttural recognition that he had earned a berth in the state’s Division II wrestling tournament, finishing third in his region and carving out his place among the best wrestlers in Ohio. On Thursday in Columbus, he won a match in triple overtime to reach the quarterfinals.

“He’s our miracle,” said his mother, Lori Carter. “He’s my hero. He’s my son, but he’s also my hero.”

Carter has compiled a 41-2 record this season for Hillsboro High School, about 55 miles east of Cincinnati. He has also won a handful of tournaments and inspired nearly everyone who has watched him.

“His perseverance speaks for itself,” said Scott Goodpaster, Carter’s trainer. “He wants to win. He wakes up every day wanting to win. This is his passion, and he bleeds for it. He works so hard to get by in life.”

Nearly every task would seem to pose a challenge, even if Carter makes things look easy. To drink his Vitamin Water, for instance, he unscrews the cap with his teeth or with his short arms, balances the bottle with his bottom nubs while regripping with his arms, tilts the liquid into his throat and moves on to his next destination with the bottle in his mouth.

He can do 20 chin-ups with a 40-pound weight attached to his neck. He can lift weights. About the only thing he cannot do, Goodpaster said, is cut his own steak.

When he was 5, Carter contracted meningococcemia, an acute bacterial infection of the bloodstream. By the time his mother had rushed him to the hospital, he had a temperature of 104 and splotchy skin. He stopped breathing and his heart stopped while he was being airlifted to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, according to family members. The medics brought him back three times before stabilizing him.

Carter, it seemed, was being stubborn.

“He had always been competitive and very strong-willed and determined — always,” his mother said. “It used to get him in trouble. He was a terror before he got sick. He was stubborn and strong-willed. Thank God he got those qualities.”

While doctors attended to Carter at Children’s Hospital and told his parents he might not last the night, his father, Russ, found his way to the chapel and prayed for a miracle. An hour later, when Russ returned to the room, his son’s vital signs had improved.

Two and a half months later, Carter left the hospital free from the infection but facing a life full of new obstacles.

“After about a year, he started getting out there and doing normal things,” Russ Carter said. “He realized he could do this stuff. He wasn’t really restricted to anything he wanted to do. I don’t help him with anything. I might help him to speed him up, but he doesn’t want the help. He’s stubborn.”

Carter decided in eighth grade that he wanted to wrestle. The day his son told him, Russ Carter said, “I knew there wasn’t going to be an argument about it.”

After the matches on Saturday, a district tournament official asked Carter to fill out a form for the state meet. The official said Carter’s coach, Nathan Horne, could write the answers if he needed help. Nope, Carter responded, taking the pen with both arms. He would do it himself — and with decent handwriting, no less.

That determination would serve him well in the future. He hopes to wrestle in college and would like to be a motivational speaker and nutritionist.

“I don’t look at myself as different,” said Carter, who uses prosthetic legs when he is not wrestling. “I wrestle like anybody else. I go to school like anybody else. I can live on my own like anybody else. I can do anything anybody else can do. I don’t like people feeling sorry for me. Some people do.”

None of those people were with him Saturday in a Goshen High School gym full of fans who rose and awarded him a standing ovation as he screamed.

When time finally ran out during his consolation semifinals match against Dustin Davidson, the scoreboard showed a 3-1 victory for Carter. Knowing the victory had landed him in the state tournament, he scurried to the middle of the mat, lifted his head toward the ceiling and roared. Not once, but twice.

“I’ll never forget it,” Carter said. “I’ve been waiting for this too long. It was my last chance. I’ve been struggling to sleep all weekend. I’ve been dreaming about my matches. It’s stayed in my head too long. That was everything coming out.”

His family, wearing buttons with pictures of Carter, surrounded him as he galloped to his father and leaped into his arms. They cried into each other’s shoulders. The friends and family who surrounded them shed tears, as well.

“I don’t think I’ve ever felt such elation in my life,” Lori Carter said, struggling to keep her voice steady. “He’s worked so hard. After everything he’s been through, he deserves his dream.”

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brvheart
03-04-2008, 08:52 PM
thanks for the post Duran :)

rightcrosslefthook
03-05-2008, 08:32 PM
Wow! Very inspirational.

Lil_Aaron
04-01-2008, 12:33 AM
im from ohio and i just started wrestling for the first time this year and i had a decent record for my first year ever wrestling and im a junior in high school.

anyways, that dustin carter kid is really good. i went to medina tournament like halfway through the season and watched him dominate the 103 lb. weight class. its funny though becuase he is in the 103 weight class and he has the body of a senior in high school thats been wrestling for years. my high school's 103 was tiny lol. btw i wrestled 112

Boo
04-01-2008, 08:01 AM
im from ohio and i just started wrestling for the first time this year and i had a decent record for my first year ever wrestling and im a junior in high school.

anyways, that dustin carter kid is really good. i went to medina tournament like halfway through the season and watched him dominate the 103 lb. weight class. its funny though becuase he is in the 103 weight class and he has the body of a senior in high school thats been wrestling for years. my high school's 103 was tiny lol. btw i wrestled 112

What made you decide to start wrestling?

DDrag0n923
04-01-2008, 08:20 AM
Stories like that make you suck up whatever crap your going through during training and makes you train harder. Look how hard he has it and he is succeeding, ****** why shouldn't I try to work that hard ya know. :)

Lil_Aaron
04-01-2008, 11:41 PM
i wanted to start wrestling because my father (rest his soul in peace) who died in 2001 always talked to be about wrestling because he wrestled for purdue and i decided i wanted to be like him.

plus i watch alot of ufc which got me wanting to start mma along with my wrestling. plus because my dad im a natural at the sport. i caught on quick just learning new techniques and moves. i love it with a passion. just want to make my dad proud because i know he is watching my every match.

Boo
04-04-2008, 11:40 AM
i wanted to start wrestling because my father (rest his soul in peace) who died in 2001 always talked to be about wrestling because he wrestled for purdue and i decided i wanted to be like him.

plus i watch alot of ufc which got me wanting to start mma along with my wrestling. plus because my dad im a natural at the sport. i caught on quick just learning new techniques and moves. i love it with a passion. just want to make my dad proud because i know he is watching my every match.

Sorry to hear you lost your Dad so young, but what a terrific way to honor his memory. I'm a Big Ten kid myself, went to U of Illinois.

Hey, if you ever need any advice or just some inspiration, talk to duran. He is seriously passionate about wrestling and I'm positive he'd be glad to help.

duran
04-04-2008, 12:22 PM
i wanted to start wrestling because my father (rest his soul in peace) who died in 2001 always talked to be about wrestling because he wrestled for purdue and i decided i wanted to be like him.

plus i watch alot of ufc which got me wanting to start mma along with my wrestling. plus because my dad im a natural at the sport. i caught on quick just learning new techniques and moves. i love it with a passion. just want to make my dad proud because i know he is watching my every match.

Hey L_A: You are definitely on the right track by wrestling if you want to compete in MMA in the future, whether it be just for training, if you just want to compete in some bingo hall once in a while, or if you want to make a living at it. Whether you win or lose in a combat sport depends SO MUCH on your mental game/mindset and you have a lot going for you since you are wrestling WITH PURPOSE - because your Dad would have wanted you to and because he is watching you. From my personal experience that makes you a dangerous wrestler because your opponent is fighting more than just you. If you want to transition to MMA in the future, there is no better sport offered in HS for you to compete in than wrestling. You can transfer ALL of the skills and discipline to the cage or ring. Of course if in the off season you are learning some jui jitsu and learning how to hit and kick a heavy bag, you will be light years ahead of anyone else your age. You should be training all year long at something, even if it is just lifting, running, shadow boxing or shadow wrestling. Remember that you cannot and should not be in tip top competition form 12 months out of the year, but don't take that to mean that you do nothing for months at a time while maintaining an unhealthy lifestyle.

DDrag0n923
04-05-2008, 09:07 AM
Good for you Aaron, Just remember that little chill you get when you win your matches is your dad patting you on your back :) I lost my Grandmother a few years ago, and there have been days when i just don't wanna go on training, getting my head handed to me from everyone on the mat. Then I get the chill, I think that its her telling me to get up and do her proud by getting that next guy for her. Then the focus comes back and the next match I take and it all gets better. Good luck on your training always keep your chin up and give it everything you got. They say that a real winner isn't always the person the wins, its the person that gave it everything they can and then some.

mechanismofpain
04-09-2008, 11:03 AM
sometimes I wonder if i have the heart like that to push on or if I would just quit grappling. that's the probably the most discouraging thing that could happen to a grappler. what a guy...